In October my husband and I spent $150 on tickets to a concert, that we never attended because we got into a huge argument. It on a Sunday afternoon and his friends was over, and sometimes they bring there kids, well this day I did not want to watch any kids because I needed to get ready for the concert and I wanted to look sexy for my husband. Well I told my husband before they got there (I am not watching any kids), the kids came upstairs anyway, so I told the fathers to keep their kids in the basement with them, and they still didn't listen. Well I have a seven year old son that accidentaly hurt one of the kids upstairs, while I was in the shower, I had to jump out of the shower trying to find out what happened because I heard a child crying. Oh these kids by the way are 2 & 3 years old and it was four of them, plus mine and my two step-daughters age 2 & 6, and my husband nephew and he is 3.
Now, I don't mind our kids and my husband nephew because I had them under control, but other little kids I said I was not watching.
On that Sunday is when my husband got very sick
Monday morning he gets up to go to work and he says to me "I'll call the lawyer for the anulment" I was confused, and in shock.
I cried Monday,Tuesday, and Wednesday during those days he said he didn't love me anymore, and he was leaving. Also, on Wednesday he was still in pain he asked me to call his Doctor, and I took him to the emergency room that night. For the past month he has been in and out of the hospital in pain and everything.
I stayed at the hospital with him, left there and took my son to school, and I would go to work.
I make sure he eat the right meals and tell his friends not to bring any alcoholic drinks in our house, because I didn't want him to be tempted.
He's a social drinker.
All I was trying to do was help, I thought that is what someone that loves you do.
He told me that the reaseon he married me because I trusted him completly and the only other women that trust him like that is him momma.
We have a big problem because he says I don't trust him and I don't treat him like I'm his wife, I act like I'm his mother. His friends disrespect me and I didn't wait for him to talk to them I called and said something to one of them myself and my husband didn't like that.
So now I don't call the doctors or anyone that has to do with him.
I feel he has shut me out of his life, he doesn't talk to me, he's not affectionate to me at all now, I don't think he loves me or even cares.
He's not suppose to eat greasy and fatty foods,
so last night he goes to the greasiest place and get fried chicken, and he is still in alot of pain. He is on short term disability, because of his illness.
I was just trying to take care of my husband.
What should we do?