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I am getting married on 10/18/03. I received by fed-ex a letter from a girl who said that she gave birth to my fiance's daughter 10 months ago (which was before my time). I have been with him for 7 years, but we were broken up for 1 year (this is when that child was conceived) When I confronted him with this he said that he was going to tell me before we got married. The girl said that he has had no contact with her. What should I do?

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This is a big coverup. When was he going to tell you? He says that now because you found out. And, why hasn't he had contact with this little girl, because he was trying to hide it from you until you were married? I would seriously question anyone that would hide something of that magnitude. I think I would wait to get married and see how he handles the situation with his daughter and her mom. It sounds to me like the baby's mom is trying to break you up. She could be an issue if she's trying to get him back.


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