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TKS re:success stories
#33642 11/23/99 06:10 PM
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Thank for all the responses. Thinking of offering H to read them,ya know, may give him hope too!Special thanks to Wasstubborn for sending the smoke, It's wonderful to know there are others who care so much about how it feels living with these questions.The light at the end of this journey is a lot brighter!Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks . Take Care,<BR> BECCA
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Becca, for additional encouragement, please read my post as Liz Smith "A story of forgiving".<P>It has been three months since my h. confessed his affair. It was a sexual and romantic affair with a co-worker that lasted 14 months, until April 1999. We are in counseling and he wants to make our 'new' relationship work. We even plan to have a renewal ceremony when we are ready to write new vows. <P>(I want a new ring too, and want to replace his--he didn't take it off to sleep with her --ick.)<BR>So, I guess it is early to call us a success story, but I KNOW we would not be together if I hadn't been Plan A'ing for the past year!!!<P>MB works.<P>Liz Smith, Pearl of Great Price<P>------------------<BR><BR>"I have found the Pearl of Great Price"<BR>
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Becca<BR>I'm glad I could help you!<BR>Those ladies have been my inspiration and guided me through a lot. When I hear the word "success" I immediately think of them.<BR>So print up their stories. Reread them and remember how happy they are now. They have been through every emotion we have.<BR>If your H will read them go for it!!<BR>I had my H read a little at the beginning. I don't think he believed success was possible.<BR>Hang in there! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]
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Yes,Liz! Your story of forgiveness is moving and makes me crave for that moment for us. Just not ready yet. Letting go of the pain is hard for me; I think it's because of the double betrayal. At our last anniversary 3mths. after the affair ended I expressed my need to start all over in our relationship and one day celebrate our success with renewing our vows. The ring thing is awfully yucky situation! H seemed game with the thought but he is willing to do anything to make it work. (Wish he would talk more. ) Thank you for the reply,Liz.Take Care,<P> BECCA

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