My husband is planning to leave on Saturday. I have two beautiful little boys and we will all miss him. Please help me pray for them and myself. I am in plan A and trying very hard to stay there despite all of this. Please pray that it will be effective. I don't know if I can keep him here at this point, but help me to pray that I can leave him with good memories that he will want to come back to if he does in fact leave. Please offer any advice you have.

I'm not sure what is going on in your life, But I want you to know that I am crying for you right now and I will pray for you later. I too have two boys. My husband left us last year for 30 days. He said he couldn't bare to be gone from us. But let me tell you every one of those 30 days were hell for me. I just want you to know that after it was all said and done I was kind of upset that I didn't end the plan A time frame sooner. I think it would have helped things speed up. They don't need much time to see the light of day. Then again, I needed to make the appropriate changes in our lives so that he could actually miss me. I do love my husband, but it hurts to think that he didn't love me enough to stay. I know how you are feeling. I wish for you only the best of luck. Please be strong. I know it's hard but you've got to try. <P>Jenni

Thanks Jenni, I don't know how to feel, it does give me hope to know that yours came back and did see the light of day quickly. I'll keep you posted. Keep praying and thank you.