last night my unfaithful wife served me divorce papers. I figured divorce was probably inevitable, but I still am stunned. I feel like I've just been run over by a car hands shaking, weak, sick to my stomach want to cry but can't, can't breathe very well either<P>please pray for me anyone...<P>and yet I see so many needs on this site... so many wounds and so much hurt...... God, please help us! we're all dying down here

You will be in my prayers. Is there a waiting period? In my state there is a one year waiting period. Otherwise, I would be divorced today, as our recovery started about nine months after the separation. Never give up and keep up that Plan A.

Dear Jesus, <BR>Divorce is against Your will. You make that very clear. Please help all of us to stand for our marriages and help Classical to have faith and hope despite the apparent failure of his marriage. Please reward him for this faith and the trust he has in You and in his marriage. Restore this marriage in You. Amen.

Thank you so much for your prayers... I can see we can all represent Jesus to each other. God bless you!<P>Ken, as my "signature" says:<P>------------------<BR>Waiting for God...

Dear Classical musician, Just reach out and cry out to the Lord with all you have. Keep praying brother and dont give up. During this time, try to show your wife that you still love her with all your heart and dont show any anger. Ask the Lord to help you on this and ask the Lord to love her thru you. Dear Lord, i pray for my brother that you would give him strenth and peace thru these heart breaking trials and that you would turn his wife's heart to you Lord and her husband. Nothing is too great for you Lord. May your name be glorified Lord. In Jesus name, Amen<P>Tell your wife, you will stand in divorce court and tell the judge and everybody else that you love your wife with all your heart and that you do not agree to the divorce. Tell the judge you have forgiven her for her unfaithfulness and would like the court to grant marital counseling before a divorce can even be considered. They say you dont have to accept a job if they want you to work on sunday and not loose your unemployment benifits. reason being, its an offense to your religous beliefs. Dont accept a divorce for the same reason. Try it , why not. Anyway, Trust in the Lord and not man. The Lord is on your side.<BR>Mark

NOTHING is impossible with God.<P>Can any of us make a planet, a star, a galaxy or even a bug?? We are so far beneath Him, yet we dare to question Him. How foolish we are, yet He loves us as we love our children.<P>Ask, beg, pray, turn your life around, witness for Him, love, love, love your wife and if the Lord wills it, it will be. In His time, on His schedule, with the goal of having you both with Him forever.<P>Lord, I pray for the conversion of Ken's wife and for the continued changes in him. Lead him to be perfect, to shine for you, to be Your Light, not only for his wife but for all around him. Help all of us to understand how to really turn our lives to You, to really trust in You, to believe in You. Thank You for all of our trials which lead us ever closer to You. Blessed be Your Holy Name, Jesus Christ.