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Yesterday I sent my husband flowers and a balloon (I love you) to his work.<P>Well today he was telling me how everyone was asking who they were from. Wouldn't there first thought be that they are from his wife. Or maybe they know something that I don't. <P>So of course this is all I'm thinking about today.<P>
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MHC - Hi. My h told me once that he bought a present at a place he stops at from time to time and they asked him if it was for his wife or his girlfriend. "why would they ask that?", he said. <P>I think that sometimes, others do see things that we don't. And, of course, it's always on your mind.<P>Keep coming here for advice and to vent. You can decide what you need to do next.<P>By the way - I never got the gift.<P>Lori
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dear hubby cheats,<P>Amazing! A mind that function EXACTLY like mine. But let me tell you from experience. Don't put your self through unnecessary torture. IF there was anything wrong even remotely associated with what he haid, believe me he would not have told you about it. ANd co-workers don't automatically assume that you sent flowers. Maybe it was from his children or, his parents, or siblings, for a birthday or something.<P>My husband sent me a dozen beautiful red at my job, and all day, my co-workers asked me who who they were from. And if it was a special occassion.<P>Try not worry about anything until you have to. And I know that is easier said than done.<P>Take Care-
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MHC-<P>Liza is right, don't worry too much about it, it could be completely innocent. Because of the current situation, you are hypersensitive to these types of things. The first time I went through it w/H, I felt like his whole work and social circle knew because of little things they would say or do. It was probably no different than what was said or done before, I was just looking at things differently. Besides, I don't think he would have told you if he had something to hide.<P>God Bless.
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i sent flowers to my H last month, and all i put on the card was "i'm sorry". no name or anything. he actually thought they were from one of his clients! a dozen red roses? he thanked me anyway but i probably should have put some big love letter on them for the OW to see!<P>------------------<BR>for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do us part.<P><BR>
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If my H worked with the OW and I sent him flowers to the office, I think that I would write on the card (in big letters: "Last night was wonderful! Wait 'til you see what's in store for you tonight!"<BR> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif)
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