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I am the BS and my W is living W/OM.<p>She says she loves him and does not love me anymore.<p>I want to save our M and she does not, she is the love of my life, an W/o her I will feel incomplete for the rest of my life.<p>If you want more background on this Click Here
I have never been religous until 3 weeks ago when she left, now I pray for us to get through this.<p>All I ask from you all is to pray for "us". <p>I don't want it to end in D.<p>[ January 08, 2002: Message edited by: Torizo ]</p>

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Dear Jesus,<p>Please help this man draw closer to You and allow him to feel the love of the Holy Trinity, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Pour out Your grace on him and please restore this marriage in Your perfect timing. Help him through the moments of anguish, depression, doubt and anger he will feel throughout this terrible trial. Remake him in Your image, Jesus - strong, gentle, courageous, determined and full of love.<p>I ask this through Your Holy Name.<p>Amen.

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Thank you Tth, And God Bless...

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Please Holy Spirit, convict this man's wife of her sin and bring her to Jesus so she is a new person, thereby saving her soul and as a additional benefit, saving the marriage. God hates divorce. Please God help them.

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Lord thank you that Torizo has found strength in praying to you. Please honor and bless this man in his desire to forgive his wife and save this marriage. Lord please touch them both and make a place for them in your kingdom. You are a God of love that know the heart. Please hear the pray of this one that asking of you in faith. Allow his WS to turn from her sin and restore this marriage to one that brings testimony to you and your loving kindness. Thank you that all things work to the good of those that love you.
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Thank you all, I pray for my M and my W everyday. I have not lost hope, but it is hard to hold on.<p>May God Bless you lives, and help you through any struggle you may have.<p>In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, Amen.

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Thank you all, for your prayers and kind words.<p>It has recently come to my attention that my W is going to church on sundays With OM, that is downright unfair. I should be the one next to her in church, (Not that anyone would know she is married, she hasn't worn her ring for at least 5 or so weeks).<p>Please God, I ask why?, I understand I have to be more "emotionally" giving towards her, I have accepted the affair, and I have forgiven her for it, I only ask for help, for her to end the affair, and "want" to work on our M. Being but human, we of course have free will, just please give her a "nudge" if you will in the direction for recovery. But first the A must end. I can do no more than I have done, and I completely trust in you Lord. Thank you for listening. In the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ, Amen.<p>If I could only hold her in my arms one last time... and tell her I love her... Just one last time...


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