On Jan.20th of this year after 26 years of marriage my wife told it was over.She told me we could not afford to live apart and she would get a job to save for a place to live.I told her I could and would change and I thought things were getting better.I am an emotional basketcase I am severly depressed and cry all the time like a baby.After nearly 3 months I now now I cant do it myself and have decided to seek counseling.She has agreed but she does not think it can work.She thinks we are through and has told me she is in love with another man although it does not know it at this time.I need help and prayer.I WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO SAVE MY MARRAIGE,I LOVE THIS WOMAN.PRAY FOR ME,PRAY FOR US.

Heavenly Father I come to You in the name of Your Son Jesus for this man and his w. I pray that You would break through the hardness of heart and through the depression so that Your will be done, namely, the restoration of this M. Guide this couple to the counselor You would put in their lives. You know the steps of action that need to be taken to restore them in You. I pray also this man would seek You, seek You to know You, to be transformed by You. In ways his wife would see what You are doing, lifelong changes in the core of this man to be more like You. For this w I pray that You expose the lie of the enemy here and now, open the eyes of her heart and remove the blinders of sin and rebellion, guilt and shame. <p>Tomsal,
One thing came to mind as I was praying, Jesus loves You and He loves Your wife and He wants You to be together. Sin has broken that, it is not your job to show your w how you have changed or how she needs to change, God will do that, if you let Him. I also thought that I would recomend Steve as a counselor, he has helped me. I don't always recomend him to everyone, but I feel his counsel is worth the money. <p>Blessings to you my friend,
knight

Tomsal, Knight will be a good friend to you. He knows your pain very well.<p>Of course, Father God will be more than a Friend to you. Thank you for posting so believers viewing this can pray for your needs and for the faith it reflects. Don't give up that hope. <p>Incredible patience is required of you. Know that despite the betrayal, you remain worthy of love. The Father loves you and He will bring you comfort. Walk close to Him, let Him be your strength because surely you do not feel much at this time--He is faithful to His word and will carry you through.<p>Lord Jesus, I agree in prayer with Knight and Tomsal for the healing of his M. Touch his W and the areas in his own life in which you desire to bring deeper healing. Lord, may whatever faith he has in You grow, be watered and flourish. Protect his W and reveal to her the deception she has entered. Lord, I pray she will accept Your truth.<p>Tomsal, just felt as I was praying that I should share what God did to me in my time of unfaithfulness. Total strangers would come up to me and talk about the family values or I would be driving to see OM and the radio program would be on fleeing from temptation. Don't be surprised what God will do to speak to your W but please wait on Him and let Him work on you, too.<p>Blessings.

THANKS TO ALL WHOM HAVE SAID PRAYERS THEY ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED.HAD OUR FIRST COUNSELING SESSION AND THE HOPE IS GREAT NOW THANKS!I HAVE BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH CLINICAL DEPRESSION AND THEY WANTED ME TO TAKE MEDICATION,BUT SINCE FIRST THERAPY HAVE NOT NEEDED ANY MEDICINE I KNOW GOD IS NOW WORKING ON ME AND MY WIFE AND OUR MARRAIGE.PLEASE KEEP US IN YOUR PRAYERS.