Ok, I know not all of you know my story but I will tell you it has been a very long 16 months...Ive had it all several ddays, lies, the affair with my bestfriend, pain depression, my daughter took pills, my family was falling thru every crack to be found...Then I started praying for others as well as my self. I got on every prayer board I could put my name on, I visited churches I laid it at Gods feet in defeat....To day, im 2 weeks away from 18th ann. one I didnt think I would be having and he is talking about taking me on a cruise...My friends God is great!!!!!
My daughter???Much better growing stronger in herself and hte lord all the time, my husband is moving toward the path God has for hm not what man whats....
Never give up...In some cases defeat may come but never doubt the Lords plans fo rus all!!!!

<small>[ September 16, 2003, 03:12 PM: Message edited by: hurtmorethanheknows ]</small>

Wow, how awesome! How awesome the change in your situation and how awesome that you are giving God the glory!

I actually don't know your story, but thank you for sharing this praise. I hope that the cruise will be WONDERFUL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> May God bless you and your family far beyond what you can even hope for or imagine!!!

God bless.

<small>[ June 12, 2004, 05:34 AM: Message edited by: LoveMyEx ]</small>

P R A I S E T H E L O R D ! ! !

Hurt, I'll be praying for you. The Lord is the God of miracles, expect yours! Same for you LoveMyEx, He sees your heart and loves you so much.

He hears our prayers and is answering them, though sometimes it sure doesn't seem like it. He is no respecter of persons.... what He has done for us (we have a restored marriage far better than it has ever been) He will do for you. May the Lord bless you abundantly!

AW

The is such a power in prayer...I used to just think if I could get soem peace I could think this thru and you know what???? I found my peace in prayer...I have had to make changes as well my husband but I beleive that God wants a better stronger marriage for us han before...Its great to see you both doing well also...
Makes me wanna scream and shout!!!!!Thank you Lord!

i want to find that same faith you have
ive been praying about my marriage for years but i never really gave up control of it.
i would ask for guidance then go against my better judgement for the sake of winning the arguement. im hoping to give it all up to god and have it work out the way he plans. i think i keep interfering with his plans. if i would just let go of the reins i would probably already have what i want.

heres my story
My husband and I have had problems for awhile. We grew further and further apart mostly due to my dislike of porn and his lying to cover up his like of it. Looking back I may have been overreacting to it. We never really solved those issues. We grew further and further apart to where I started thinking about divorce. I told him I wanted one, he begged for us to stay together. I did not believe things would be different and made him move out. I then met a man who was very nice to me said all the things I had always wanted husband to say. You know the rest. My husband and I remained separated for a few months, we then talked about reconciling. He moved back in and a woman he had been seeing up to that point started calling. He had told her it was over. We fought about that, but tried to work it out anyway. Didn't work right away he moved back out for a couple months. I thought it was over and moved. I realize now what a mistake I made I want to work things out with him but he says no its done. I feel hes just saying this because hes mad. Deep down I think he wants it to work but doesnt want to admit it in case he gets hurt again. He says he likes the single life clubbin, strip clubs etc. I feel hell get tired of this scene soon enough. What should I do? We have kids, and along time together. I am willing to do whatever it takes. Should I just give it up, or should I fight the divorce? How do I do I?
Please email me or reply I'm desperate for any advice.

missmyhoney,

Let me ask you some questions. How much do you REALLY love your hubby? How much do you REALLY believe God? If you REALLY want these things, then make a stand. Faith comes by hearing... Are you reading your bible? Do you pray for guidance and wisdom in regard to your marriage? Are you active in church? Are you obedient to the word of God, or are you still doing your own thing? As S&C said, obedience is about the act, not the outcome. Get into the WORD of GOD and you'll get into the WILL of GOD. I'm not trying to be mean, just motivating. If we want something bad enough, then sometimes we have to do something we've never done. Following Jesus means laying down ourselves and lifting Him up without looking for reward or consequences. Start putting God first and He will get involved in your marriage. Get involved with helping others who are having marriage difficulties. Mike Murdock says " what you make happen for others, God will make happen for you ". That statement is based on scripture. Read 2nd Chronicles 7:14 God said that everything starts with repentence. That is a fact. There are no short cuts in the word of God. May God give you His guidance and His wisdom to save your marriage. In Jesus name. Amen
God Bless
singleguy

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">There is such a power in prayer...</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">AMEN! Yes there is! I truly believe God can take what seems to be an impossible situation and turn it around for His glory and our good. I too found my peace in prayer. When we were separated and I would get very upset and anxious, I would pray earnestly and the Lord would flood His peace over me. It was amazing. He led me to realize though my H had done some really awful things, He wanted me to work on ME, and change ME. When I read the Power of a Praying Wife the words 'Change ME Lord' just jumped out at me. I still keep praying that prayer because I have a long way to go! I read Proverbs often and really get a lot out of those verses.

missmyhoney - singleguy has given you some great, thought provoking questions. I agree fully with him, especially about getting into the Word. I just can't explain it; the Word will speak to you, it will guide you and give you so much peace and comfort. I just can't say it enough, there is tremendous power in prayer. You have the keys to the kingdom... it is in the Word of God. I will pray for you and your husband; trust in Him, He WILL work it out for you. God bless you!!