We need prayer in the relationship between my husband and I. That we will learn to talk and work out conflicts. My husband will learn to be less controling. I will learn to speak up about my feelings, wants, needs, desires, and that I will speak up when my husband is being mean, or treating me like a child. That I will learn to stick up for myself, and treat my husband with respect, and love as God would have me treat him

Terry

Hi,
Please add me and my FWH to the prayer list. We are 5 months post-d-day, 1 month NC, doing pretty well, but at times he appears to WD a bit. I ask about it, telling I am sensing the signs/syptoms of WD, my concerns of his possible need to C the OW, and how I want to help him with this. I truly believe their is NC. He has shared e-mail & cell phone with me.

He insists it is only the stress at work (he does have a very high-stress job), but, for one thing, I've noticed that his kisses over the last few days are getting shorter and shorter, like the kisses you give your kids (on the mouth, but just pecks, really). When I mention it, he gets exasperated with me.

We've done the EN/LB questionnaires, are reading and working through SAA, HNHN, LB, TA.
I pray for all BS, WS, OP asking that they will hear God's call to do His will, and that they will receive His comfort, blessings, and be empowered to work on the R's He put them in - their M's.

God bless, everyone.

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BS-me-49 (for 9 more days!)
FWH - him - 44
M-20 yrs
3 kids - DD-18, DS-15, DS-9
PA-15 months. 2/03-5/04, Dday-5/8/04
NC-9/3/04
In recovery (hopefully) - with God's help