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My H and OW have been "apart" for 2 months now - she apparently has dumped him. She is afraid of my evidence and is afraid she will lose her kids. She has apparently told him that their relationship was "wrong" and that she had to do what was best for her kids. She told someone last month that she and her H had been going to a new church and that it was really helping her marriage. My H has spent 6 days writing her a very long letter trying to get her to meet him to "talk about it." This may be a strange request, but I would like prayer for her to remain strong in her resolve not to answer his letter or agree to see him. I have been praying for the wrong things during this thing, when I finally started praying for her, I saw God working. Please pray that she doesn't give in to his pressure and pleading. Thanks so much.
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Father,
Thankyou for the work you are doing in this ow's heart and in her marriage.
I pray that she will not waver, and that you will heal her marriage.
I pray for Starz's husband, that he will be convicted also, and that he will repent of his ways.
Please help Starz to be patient while you deal with him.
Shul
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I pray every night for WH's OW. I pray for her soul and for enlightenment. It's one of the most difficult things I do. I've come to believe in the power of prayer and this is on my list.
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Dear Father
Please help this woman to resist the temptation to meet up and "discuss" the issue.
Amen
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Keep the faith alive
GWK
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Thank you - all of you who replied and those who prayed and didn't reply. She has not returned his messages, apparently. On the 17th (right after I posted here) he told me that he would be staying with me and we would finish our lives together. He said it rather begrudgingly. I think that she refused him and so he guessed he was stuck with me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I do believe, however, that more prayer for her would be the right thing to do.
Also, my H is not close to God. Could you pray for that, too? Thank you so much.
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