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well my problem is that h is not listen to me when i talk and also that if we fight we never solve anything because he sais that he hates talking and listening
he also spents his freetime on the computer not wanting to be bothered
we have 3 kids 2 and 1 and 4 month old
i'm 21 and he is 25 what should i do we are so close to a divorce but i love him and i know he loves us
but he is beeing realy realy selfish sometimes
but he can be a real good h and father if he waned what can i do to help him change ????
hugs mom_of_ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> 3

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Been there, done that. Never in a million years thought that I would still be married, it is now going on the big 13. I've learned to approach him, and then ask for what I need, not to say that asking to be respected and loved is something that would come automatic, but it has to be demonstrated first. His maturity will come in later years....(it always seems to do that though) Let him feel like you need him, to complete you, they love being needed and validated. Unfortunately, we have to do the waiting. Much luck with H.

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Oh my god you sound JUST LIKE ME.Im 22 my huspand is 25 and we have 3 kids a 4 2 and 7 month old he never lestined to me either cuz he was on the computer so much,I left him one day.I took the kids and left i had to much of this i couldnt handle it anymore.and he got rid of his computer... but now he just watches tv


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