Holiday shopping days are dwindling..<BR>Just some ideas...<P>Any more recommendations/comments are always welcome...<P>Jim <BR>-------------------------------<P><OL TYPE=1> <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671797255" TARGET=_blank><B>Divorce Busting :</B> A Revolutionary and Rapid Program for Staying Together</A> by Michele Weiner-Davis <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0849913411" TARGET=_blank><B>Love Must Be Tough :</B> Proven Hope for Families in Crisis</A> by James C. Dobson<BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0393307077" TARGET=_blank><B>Private Lies :</B> Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy</A> by Frank Pittman<BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060928174" TARGET=_blank><B>After the Affair :</B> Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful</A> by Janis Abrahms, Phd <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0802477488" TARGET=_blank><B>Torn Asunder :</B> Recovering from Extramarital Affairs</A> by Dave Carder, Duncan Jaenicke, David A. Seamands <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060929189" TARGET=_blank><B>Affair-Proof Your Marriage :</B> Understanding, Preventing and Surviving an Affair</A> by Lana Staheli <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1572240873" TARGET=_blank><B>Infidelity :</B> A Survival Guide</A> by Don-David, Phd. Lusterman <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0553477897" TARGET=_blank><B>How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together</B></A> by Susan Page <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/031057370X" TARGET=_blank><B>When a Mate Wants Out :</B> Secrets for Saving a Marriage</A> by Jim Conway, Sally Conway <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/091516695X" TARGET=_blank><B>Rebuilding : When Your Relationship Ends</B></A> by Bruce Fisher <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0840795769" TARGET=_blank><B>Rebuilding Your Broken World/With Study Guide</B></A> by Gordon MacDonald <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0881791296" TARGET=_blank><B>The Solo Partner :</B> Repairing Your Relationship on Your Own</A> by Phil Deluca <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0787902802" TARGET=_blank><B>Fighting for Your Marriage :</B> Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love</A> by Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, Susan L. Blumberg, Dean S. Edell <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785270450" TARGET=_blank><B>Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late :</B> A Game Plan for Reconciling Your Marriage</A> by Gary Smalley, Greg Smalley, Deborah Smalley <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785270442" TARGET=_blank><B>Winning Your Husband Back : Before It's Too Late</B></A> by Gary Smalley, Greg Smalley <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.heartmenders.org/hmtapes.htm" TARGET=_blank><B>First Aid for a Wounded Marriage</B></A> by Marilyn Phillipps <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1580621376" TARGET=_blank><B>Surviving Infidelity :</B> Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain</A> by Rona Subotnik, Gloria Harris <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0960725032" TARGET=_blank><B>Loving Choices :</B> A Growing Experience</A> by Bruce Fisher, Nina Hart <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0882702041" TARGET=_blank><B>Do Yourself a Favor : Love Your Wife</B></A> by H. Page Williams <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060972920" TARGET=_blank><B>Getting the Love You Want :</B> A Guide for Couples</A> by Harville Hendrix <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785270876" TARGET=_blank><B>The Heart of Commitment</B></A> by Scott Stanley <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0684848066" TARGET=_blank><B>In the Meantime :</B> Finding Yourself and the Love You Want</A> by Iyanla Vanzant <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0310425115" TARGET=_blank><B>Love Life for Every Married Couple</B></A> by Ed. Wheat, M.D. <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1561796514" TARGET=_blank><B>Learning to Live With the Love of Your Life : And Loving It!</B></A> by by Neil Clark Warren <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0849933625" TARGET=_blank><B>Love Is a Decision</B></A> by Gary Smalley, John T. Trent <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785281878" TARGET=_blank><B>Passages of Marriage</B></A> by Frank Minirth, Mary Alice Minirth, Brian Newman <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1881273156" TARGET=_blank><B>The Five Love Languages :</B> How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate</A> by Gary Chapman <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0802436366" TARGET=_blank><B>Hope for the Separated :</B> Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed</A> by Gary D. Chapman <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0842378960" TARGET=_blank><B>What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women</B></A> by James C. Dobson <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0310214149" TARGET=_blank><B>What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men</B></A> by Patrick M. Morley <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/155927185X" TARGET=_blank><B>Light Her Fire</B></A> by Ellen Kreidman <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785282556" TARGET=_blank><B>The Choosing to Forgive Workbook</B></A> by Les Carter, Frank Minirth <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1565075722" TARGET=_blank><B>The Power of a Praying Wife</B></A> by Stormie Omartian, Michael Omartian <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1569751811" TARGET=_blank><B>What Would Buddha Do? :</B> 101 Answers to Life's Daily Dilemmas</A> by Franz Aubrey Metcalf <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0767904265" TARGET=_blank><B>If Success Is a Game, These Are the Rules :</B> Ten Rules for a Fulfilling Career and Life</A> by Cherie Carter, Ph.D. Scott <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0842370943" TARGET=_blank><B>Touchpoints :</B> God's Answers for Your Daily Needs</A> ...Tyndale House Pub <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671733419" TARGET=_blank><B>Women Who Love Too Much : When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change</B></A> by Robin Norwood <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0452275350" TARGET=_blank><B>Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay :</B> A Step-By-Step Guide to Helping You Decide Whether to Stay in or Get Out of Your Relationship</A> by Mira Kirshenbaum <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0842366024" TARGET=_blank><B>Successful Family Ties</B></A> by Ron Ball <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0307440850" TARGET=_blank><B>The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families :</B> Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World</A> by Stephen R. Covey, Sandra Merrill Covey <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671502271" TARGET=_blank><B>The 10 Greatest Gifts I Give My Children :</B> Parenting from the Heart</A> by Steven W. Vannoy<BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0938510770" TARGET=_blank><B>Common Sense Parenting :</B> A Proven Step-By-Step Guide for Raising Responsible Kids and Creating Happy Families</A> by Raymond V. Burke, Ronald W. Herron, Father Flanagan's Boys' Home, Ray Burke Ph. D. <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0806509376" TARGET=_blank><B>Anger : How to Live With and Without It</B></A> by Albert Ellis <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1879237970" TARGET=_blank><B>Angry All the Time :</B> An Emergency Guide to Anger Control</A> by Ron Potter-Efron, Ronald T. Potter-Efron <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1556616643" TARGET=_blank><B>What If I Married the Wrong Person?</B></A> by Richard Matteson, Janis Long Harris <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/089243810X" TARGET=_blank><B>With Open Arms :</B> Catholics, Divorce, & Remarriage</A> by John Hosie <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/006250990X" TARGET=_blank><B>Annulment :</B> Your Chance to Remarry Within the Catholic Church</A> by Joseph P. Zwack <BR><LI> <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0871136643" TARGET=_blank><B>The Lucifer Principle :</B> A Scientific Expedition into the Forces of History</A> by Howard K. Bloom <BR></OL><p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited December 23, 1999).]

NSR, your previous book post was archived as you requested.<P>------------------<BR>Tempest, Moderator<BR>Marriage Builders<BR>Infidelity Forum<P>

Thanks Tempest...<P>I'll get the hang of retrieving from the archive!<P>Question...<P>Isn't it possible to change the "name" in the Hop to: "drop down list" to "Infidelity - Archive"?... or something to indicate it <B>is</B> the archive?...<P>Otherwise... it has the same name as the "Category: Issue" - Infidelity choice?<P>Jim<p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited November 30, 1999).]

I'm not sure I am understanding your question, NSR. There are two "Lists" in the Hop to drop down box: "List of Forums" and "List of Archives" There is only one archive under the list of archives and that is the Infidelity archive. It is currently the very last thing on the drop down list.<P>I hope this helps.<P>------------------<BR>Tempest, Moderator<BR>Marriage Builders<BR>Infidelity Forum<P>

Tempest,<P>yes... but when you "select" from the "drop down list" it... <BR>it comes up only as the text of "Infidelity"...<P>After a "selection" is made from the "Archive" list... it would be nice if the text in the "drop down list box" said "Infidelity - Archive"...<P>Just to distinguish the two "Infidelity"'s...<P>Once you move to the "Archive"... a novice user may forget to move back to "Category: Issue: - Infidelity"...<P>I don't have a problem with it... but again some of the novice folks might.<P>Jim

Bringing it to the top...<P>There seems to be some good discussions on the books!<P>Good for holiday shopping too!

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two more... what would buddha do? 101 answers to daily dillemas and if life is a game, then these are the rules by helen scott, ph.d.

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Another Good One<P>Hope For The Separated by, Gary Chapman<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

GREAT BOOK:<BR>In the Meantime, by: Iyanla Vanzant (one of Oprah's regulars)<BR>I highly recommend it...100%<P>------------------<BR>You will be stronger because of this.<P>

Bringing to the top for newbies... <P>Good luck with holiday shopping.

Bringing to the top for newbies... and veteranbies <P>Good luck with holiday shopping

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NSR,<BR>Another good book, written by a pastor is REBUILDING YOUR BROKEN WORLD by Gordon MacDonald. He experienced adultery in his own life and writes about the causes and effects that people experience when they make devastating life choices. It then deals with a positive spiritual restoration process that can help people back on the road to recovery. Excellent for my own healing process!<BR>Pilgrim

Up on the rooftop!