Hi Everyone,<P>I feel a little stupid for gripping about this but here goes. <P>Tony and I are getting better every day. I should be greatful for that. He know has realized full on how much damage he has done to our relationship with all his stupid selfish stuff and affairs. He is treating me better over all.<P>The problem is... well I still feel he is the only one that counts in this relationship. I have had some very bad days at work right now. The division I work for is being sold. I am part of the package deal. My boss wants to me to stay with the company now in a new position. Discussion with HR seems that they are going to make it a bit difficult for me but it can be done. I should be happy about this but it is stressing me out. I have tried on several occations to discuss this with Tony. All he cares about is his stuff and his problems. <P>Next I feel like I am just a person he has sex with and not a partner. I feel pressured all the time for sex. I am not sure why but right now I have no desire to be with him. I try for him. Last night after sex he wakes me up because he wants more. I was so pissed I just rolled over. I am exhasted all the time because of the stress of work plus I have no desire right now.<P>Next his parents. I have decided that I am going to try and purchase a house. His parents have decided that I should not because it is a bad time for them. Screw them. Their or Tony's name are not on the morgage or the house. Just me. I have no desire for his name on it. Other than helping me look at houses Tony has nothing to do with this. I have told him and his parents a few times to mind their own business. I know this sounds odd but as far as I look at it he will be a renter in my house. (If I can get one). Then last night Tony starts wanting to know everything there is to know about my stocks from work. I was so livid. It is none of his business. I told him point blank that it was not his or his parent's business about my stock nore anything else that I receive through work. And that both should mind their own business. <P>Tony then today started saying that his Dad wants to purchase stock but can not. I get the impression that they are starting to think they have a right to some of my stock. They are so wrong in every assuming they are getting anything from me. I hate his family. <P>Now Tony has threatened to move back home twice. I said fine both times. I wish he would move home and stop getting angry with me. He has not paid any of his bills since December. He has no intensions of paying anything till April. I pay all the bills except his credit cards. <P>Has anyone else been in this situation.