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h just called me from his car speaker phone, and as we chatted, he picked up a coworker who worked with h and ow at their last job. i said "hi! jack", and he said, "hi ow!".<BR>i corrected him and laughed, but my stomach sank...<BR>that was the second time that's happened to me. ugh.<BR>h redeemed himself by calling me and apologizing seconds later, but...well....eeeeewwww.
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lwb,<P>How is the recovery going?... otherwise...<BR>You are in recovery still?...<P>Jim<BR>
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********OUCH********<P>That had to sting ... so sorry that happened.
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love was blind - I am so sorry that happened. Two good things though - your H immediately called you to apologize - and you had tremendous composure to be able to pretend you were laughing it off in front of his coworker!<BR> Simone
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thanks for the sympathy, y'all. he keeps im'ing me apologizing, so things must be good.<BR>nsr, we are generally in recovery...i asked him many painful questions via email this morning...we'll see if recovery continues after i get the answers...IF i get the answers. <BR>more later....<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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LWB-isn't it hard when you have questions that need answers yet your afraid to rock the boat and ask them, at least that's me. We are doing really well in recovery yet I sometimes have questions that pop up and need to ask him things and it's hard.<BR>It's like I don't want to stop the way things are going yet I know that if I don't ask these things they will fester within me. I've had simular experiences as well with the phone, so don't feel bad! God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P><BR>
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chick's...all i can say is--i hope the truth is not as bad as my imagination!!!!!
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I agree about the questions. I want to ask, but yet I don't want to piss him off. He knows that I can't help it, but I can tell he doesn't like it.<BR>Last night I was asking questions about the relationship with OW and I think I was critsizing her too much - he started to close up.
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Yuck!!!<P>I think that's all I can say. Yuck - again!<P>Won't you be glad when all this is just a dim memory????<P>Lori
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yeah, patience, i think im way too mean about ow, but he usually agrees. i wonder if he just does it to make me feel better? it is a fine line to walk, isn't it?<BR>lostva--yeah, one day it WILL be a dim memory, wont it. hard to believe....
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I feel the same about upsetting him...I don't trust much of what he says right now and that hurts a lot. I have some questions still but am afraid to ask. Don't want to tell him how I feel...don't want to ask him what I want to know...afraid it will push him away.<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole<BR>
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LoveWAS blind,<P>You have a lot of CLASS!!!!!!! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Hopefully, it won't happen again!!!!!ZING!<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
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