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My W replied in an email to me that:<BR>"sometimes I think that if I had been able to<BR>put as much effort into our relationship as I have been into this one with<BR>OM, it might have worked"<P>Hows that for a kick in the pants?<P>J<BR>

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Things like that just make you want to pull your hair out in frustration. If only they realized they STILL CAN make their marriages work if they really want to. A betrayer's state of mind is beyond my comprehension. There are times I just wish it was all over. I think I'm getting to the point of giving up and moving on. Sorry for the rant.<P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com

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Ouch.<P>I always felt that way about my H's affair, even in the times we've tried to reconcile, he didn't seem to give me the attention and time he gave her. One of my big irks.

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OUCH!! OUCH!!!<P>Kick in the pants definitely sums that one up. <P>{{{{{{{{J}}}}}}}}


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