If your spouse is still at home and using the computer, find "Stealthlogger" on the computer. It is a shareware program and is wonderful!!!!!I was able to "discover" not only my H's hotmail password, but also the OW's (whose e-mail he had been accessing). The only problem is that, because it is shareware, every time the computer is shut down and is brought back up, it asks if you want to purchase "Stealthlogger"-which kind of defeats the purpose in my mind. I am a computer dummy and even I was able to load it. Have to also have an "unzip" program. See me for help.

Kate,<P>You could (should) pay the shareware fee and then the nagging message will go away!<P>------------------<BR>RobinAnn<P>*********<P>Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape!

I just got it yesterday, so I was going to try it out first before buying. Its definitely worth the investment - in my books.

Hi Kate31,<BR>I'm a little nervous about this program. Have you actually tried it yet? Has anyone tried it yet? Let me know if you have please and tell me exactly how it works...<P>Thanks!

I learned to press the little arrow next to find at the top of AOL next to go and keyword. Then I could find out all the places he visited

I 1st downloaded an unzip program from Yahoo. Then I downloaded the Stealthlogger program. I elected to use the Shareware program, because I didn't know anything about it. It recorded absolutely everything, but especially my H's hotmail account name and # and what he had written to her. Bad, yes, but if you need to know what's going on and your spouse isn't honest....

Dear Kate"<BR>Wow, this is something I would do. But, how in the world did you get his password and even hers? This is what I don't know. To access the mail, you would have to have the password. I am going to try this as soon as you tell me how you go about getting the password. I have been thinking about this for awhile but didn't know how to go about it or where to begin to even find it. Now, thanks to you I have. Write me and let me know about the password.

katya-it's wonderful; The keylogger records absolutely all the keystrokes. He used the computer to access his hotmail account and ta-da, his password was also typed in. He accessed her account to look at her e-mails and ta-da, her password. If you utilize the drop-down option (ie clicking on the edge of the box where you type in someone else's e-mail address when sending out maill) you can sometimes see where your spouse has sent e-mail. I happened to have clicked on the box where it asks your user name at hotmail. It pulled up all the user names. Then once I had his password....Be careful that if you do open his e-mail files, to have something like Cleansweep that erases your "cookies". I learned this the hard way previously. He could see that I was in the file when it changed from bright blue to brown on the file name. Good luck. I only wish I had found this sooner.

Hey there Kate,<P>Wow, oh wow, oh wow. I know my H's Hotmail password, but he deleted all their wonderful letters when I discovered. I have been trying to find out OW's password for a long time now. I have an unzip program and I am also sort of a dummy. Can my H tell if I try this? Please enlighten me!!!<P>Meg

I got lucky in that my H knew the Ow's password/sign-on and was checking her e-mail. There are other not-so-legal hacker programs out there that I've found that search for the password for you. I attempted to download one of them with no success. <P>My H is very computer saavy so I had to download it when he was gone during the day, wait for him to sign on at night when I was gone, the keylogger tracked his keystrokes (aka his letters to the OW, hotmail password/sign-on), pray that my computer wouldn't get stuck and have to be shut down, and delete all traces of the program in the morning after I had collected his password. Like I said before, because it is a shareware program, it does ask if you want to purchase the program when you bring your computer down and then up again. It would be very obvious to anyone what you were doing since it is called STEALTHLOGGER. I removed as many traces as I could from system once I had un-installed the program.<BR>I just encourage my H to use the computer as much as possible