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I haven’t been on much in the last 4 weeks, but it is a never ending stream of new people coming on this board with the same heart-wrenching stories. Will this never end? I understand this has been going on since the beginning of man, but I have only dealt with it for the last 8 months. It is so sad! My heart goes out to all of you! Learn to live with what you have! It’s not perfect and never will be! But, what you have is so special and so right in the eyes of God, you must try everything you can to make it better. Someone else can not fix the feelings you have towards your spouse. You know what is wrong and must do EVERYTHING you can to make it better. If it doesn’t wok out, then separate, then divorce before you become invlolved with someone else.<P>My heart goes out to all of you!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>
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Chris,<P>I felt the same. I haven't been around much in the last 4 weeks as well and by the time I started lurking again, I was so surprised to see so many new names in it.<P>Anyhow, I feel 'happy' for those who founded this save heaven cuz there are a lot of wise people here that could give you good advises, comfort and prayers. <P>Good luck for all of you,<P>Saskia
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Good Advice Chris!!<P>Happiness is what you make it. Noone is <BR>perfect and marriage tends to have a <BR>life of it's own - it's up to each and <BR>every spouse or SO to keep the blood <BR>pumping and make sure it stays alive and <BR>well.<P>God Bless and Watch over us all!!<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba
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Chris,<P>I've been gone a lot also this last 4 weeks, and the new people on the board amaze me. I am so happy they found marriage builders, I think it was God who led me here in the first place, and my marriage has really shown great improvement.<P>I know your marriage hasn't had the same results. But I bet it would be worse for you if you weren't getting and giving the emotional support through this forum. <P>I do like the part about divorcing before getting involved in another relationship. I agree - you've stayed true to yourself this long, the self respect gained through that shouldn't be thrown away while in such a vulnerable state. <P>Have you put a time limit for yourself? I will say a prayer for you today.<P>God Bless.
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