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From discovery until now how long have you been tortured? (prediscovery torture doesn't count here). For me it will be seven months on Tuesday.
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It has been 8 months for me. Of course, my H is still denying that there is/was anything going on all the while living with her. He just moved out of their apartment this month, but I suspect as soon as our divorce is final (1 week) they will be living together again. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>Tulip
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Found out Christmas night 1998, she left 17 Feb 99 and she’s been gone since.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>
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It will be almost two years for me. H broke it off with OW twice so far so he has been back and forth for two years.
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D-day was May 26, 1999. So it's been almost a year for me. H moved out in January. I'm going to talk to a lawyer Tuesday and file for divorce. H is still with the OW.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com
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Found out a year ago this month. My H has been gone 14 months, and has been living with her almost all of that time.
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I found out December 23, 1999. H moved out that day and moved in with the OW. I filed for divorce in March and we had a hearing Friday.
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It has been 8 months since Dday and my H still says they are only "friends". I have filed for divorce although he still can't look me in the eye and tell me this is what he wants. Each time I ask he says he doesn't know.
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It was a year ago March 17th. He moved out July 30th so he has been living with her 8 1/2 months. He started contacting me a little bit in Jan. Om March 24 he told me he want to come back and we are working on that now The problems are too many to write here if you are curious check out my post around that time. <P>------------------<BR>di<P><p>[This message has been edited by SDS (edited April 16, 2000).]
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discovery was june 1, 1999 and we seperated oct 99. I filed for divorce on january 7, 2000.<P>he is living with ow but wont admit to it..he could get introuble at work.<P>amanda<BR><P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <P>thevancefamily@hotmail.com
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D-day was September 27, 1999, so it will soon be seven months. Please tell me it gets easier than it is now!<P>Peppermint <p>[This message has been edited by peppermint (edited April 16, 2000).]
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I've two discovery dates over the same woman! The first was 9/9/97 and the other was 2/18/00--little did I know in between an EA had developed and was getting out of hand.<P>H moved out for three weeks just a month ago and is back home. No talk of divorce anymore, only talk of wanting to live a straight life, together, as a family, without bringing anymore problems of this nature into our lives. Can't ask for more than that right now I suppose...given these other replies I guess we are in good shape!<P>
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on the 26 of this month it will be 7 months. I found out on Sep 26 on a Wed. I will never forget that day, and even my oldest d know the date.<P>The O/W has dumped him, she is moving away to another state, dateing someone else. Maybe his fantasy world is crumbling....our D is on hold right now.<P>This is the longest almost 7 months of my life, I have a few wrinkles now, I have lost weight, I do not laugh like I used too, I could go on and on...
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It will soon be two months. He is at home, telling me they are now ONLY friends, no more love emails...for how long, is a question. He won't stop...
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Three months since I found out. He's been living with OW since Feb7. He told me this afternoon he would be home by Tues. night. I am so scared though I dont want to be hurt anymore.
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Poll - how long has it been for you?<P>I have a picture of my right hand in my billfold.<BR>
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I suspect we are close to our one year D-Day anniversary. I know it was shortly before his birthday which is coming up in about three weeks. The torture has gotten less extreme now so that it is more like the occasional PTSD type.
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About 3.5 months. Now in recovery, doing pretty well. Not 100% yet, but no longer qualifies as torture!
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ugh...I'm the baby. One month and one day since she told me; I didn't suspect anything other than lack of communication between us. She moved out the same night. Her EA had been since Nov. 99...<P>
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D-day (well, when I gave up all illusions that it wasn't true) was 9 January 2000. Has it really only been three months?
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