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Hi again...it's me the paranoid person. W and I had a very good weekend with the kids. She went out fri night to a movie with a friend...came home and stayed up half the night with me. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Saturday and Sunday were both very nice days spent with the kids for the most part...some quiet time for us though. Only one small disagreement all weekend!!! <P>So why is it that I am still harboring all these negative emotions toward HIM and still feeling like I have to check up on her and make sure that they aren't in contact with each other? I really don't want to be like that, it's almost like I have to...<P>Need an opinion on something from those of you with a little more experience with this situation. Would a woman say she is in love with you, continually kiss and hug and "grope" you, and make passionate love all weekend long still be able to call the OM and carry on a relationship of any type with him as well? And if so, HOW?!?!?!?!<P>As you can see I am very confused right now....help if you can.

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Dear L&S,<P>I don't want this question for you to go unanswered - but I don't have the answers because I was the betrayed - and know the pain of not knowing.<P>Maybe she's still confused and trying to reassure you she loves you?<P>Have you tried any of the "I feel statements"? How does she respond to honest communication?<P>Don't be lost and scared - be strong and certain. Strong in your resolve to rebuild this marriage, and certain your plan A will work! It can!<BR>

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I am certainly trying to be strong. However, the uncertainty keeps creeping in at times..

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yunno, i have had several of those EXACT SAME weekends.<BR>i don't get it, either.<BR>where are all our betrayers today?


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