This is just an up date and also let people know that just when you think you can not go on. Today was a turning point for me. It made me see just how far I've grown in the past 2 months. Since my H's AF now going on 1 year, 2nd time around living with OW for 2 months, I felt the lowest 4 days ago. I got on here and read alot and got the strenght to hang on. I was ready to tell him that I could no longer go on like this. He has been telling me he loves me but yet he is still with her.<P>Friday I went for a job interview, at 4:30 they called to tell me I have the job. I've been out of work for almost 8 months. I felt it was time to do it on my own. I feel so good about it.<P>Now the wonderful part. My H told me on Friday that he would be coming over to spend Mothers Day with me and his mother. When he came over he had flowers and a card in his hand. The card was the best. It made me cry. I just had to share it with you.<P>No one ever said that love was easy or that there wouldn't be misunderstandings or moments when lovers would need to be apart in order to love better or more completely. I know we've had some difficult moments lately, and sometimes I wonder if we'll ever see eye to eye or if our actions will ever reflect what we really feel inside. But I want you to know my heart still belongs to you, and no matter how difficult this situation is for us, I know we'll get through it. I hope you still believe in me...I still believe in you, and I will always believe in us. (Tara Centeio) Then he signed it Happy Mothers Day! I Love You!<P>What a card. It was written just for us. I got up from the table with tears in my eyes and gave him the biggest hug and told him that yes I still believed in us. He said in the kindest way I have ever heard from him since all of this started, I love you!<P>He stayed with us until 7pm tonight!!! He told me he was going to have to hear it from OW since he was to be home by 3 or 4pm. She had no idea he was with me. She thought he was with his mother only. OH WELL!! He also told me that he wants to start talking about coming back home if I still want him too. I told him, OF COURSE I WANT YOU TO COME BACK HOME,YOU ARE WELCOME BACK ANY TIME. <P>It seems that the fog may be clearing up. I hope so. I'm so thankful that I did not give up on him. I know that this is only the beginning, but I can see now that Plan Aing him to death is starting to pay off. I know now that he was waiting to see who was going to give him a hard time and that one was not going to be me. I guess OW has started in on him because she is not getting her house that she wanted and things are not going fast enough for her. <P>I'm so glad that there is a God who answers prayers. This is for all of you who wonder if Plan A really works. IT CAN WORK!!!!! <P>Sorry so long but it's been a wonderful day and had to share.<P>

Praise the Lord. Your post gave me a chill and made me misty. Excellent, excellent news.<P>Blessings<P>Catnip =^^=

<P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jannie}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>It takes a while, it takes persistance, it takes all we've got, but sometimes, it really does work!!<P>Way to go!<P>Lori

Jannie,<P>I am so happy for you... <P>I stay and post thinking there might be a miracle for me too...<BR>...even though the odds are like winning the lottery (in my case)<BR>...hope springs.... well you know...<P>It is so good to hear the prospect of a happy reunion for you. Hard work no doubt... but so rewarding. <P>My prayers continue with you.<P> <P>Jim