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Regarding Dr Harleys advice that fiends should be of the same sex. My wife has had an equal number of male and female lovers and is equally attracted to both sexes. So what do I do about friends she may make as we rebuild our marriage.
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What about setting new boundaries for the future that include a rule that you must both share new friendships or they don't happen? If a friendship is not good for the couple and does not nurture the couple, it shouldn't be allowed to flourish. That which is not constructive is certainly at risk for being destructive.
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Pegasus,<P>You are in a mess aren't you. While I agree with Popeye, there are times a person needs friends of their own. Someone who understands them and is on their side. Is there a woman like this who is female and not interested in a female/female relationship that your wife can just be friends with ?<P>------------------<BR>Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<BR>In memory of a dear friend WallyM7 <A HREF="http://fathom.org/teemingmillions/wally.adp<P>Hepatitis" TARGET=_blank>http://fathom.org/teemingmillions/wally.adp<P>Hepatitis</A> C, educate yourself ! <A HREF="http://hepatitis-central.com/" TARGET=_blank>http://hepatitis-central.com/</A>
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