Hi Gang<P>Stop the press Here's an update<P>I have been away for the past 3 days doing everything for myself. What a change that felt, no one to run after or think about, no children wanting your time and affection. I came back revitalised and to my suprise my W has sent me 2 emails.<P>After last weeks Plan B letter to WS I have finally recieved some response after 3months. <P>First was that W has accepted that she has damaged our marriage and apoligised for the hurt she has caused me. This was only after I wrote to her telling her that I knew everything that she did."BIG BLUFF"<P>Now she wants to forget what happened and move on with or without me and still remain friends.Another quote "I love you but I am not in love with you". Sounds very simular to what I have read here so many times. Wants her time to work on herself and not to rush her into making a decision. I feel we maybe on the way back...slowly with baby steps.<P>Recieved email tonight inviting me and the children to her place for lunch on saturday, where she is house sitting. To my knowledge she is there alone.<P>What a change from last week, now wants me in the same room with her. I find that very unbelievable, but I dont care if we are moving a little. I cant go as I have to work all day and arranged to go out after work with some friends who have supported me throughout this ordeal.<P>So my friends those prayers may have started the ball rolling. I am still in the game and returned her first serve. <P>bye for now<BR>tim

Sounds like a little progress! <BR>Hope that more "baby steps" follow...<P>Good luck!

timtam,<P>Just remember the Plan B means that you not contact her or see her until the OM is out of the picture and she decides she would like to consider the marriage.<P>Hope you have a good time with you friends.<P>Keep up the good work.<P>JL<P>PS: I have visited your city a few times and really enjoyed it.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Just Learning (edited August 17, 2000).]