Hi,<BR>Well he didn't answer my email the other day in reply to him cancelleing his birthday dinner with me,nor did he reply to the one i sent today.Instead he just turned up,basically to do his washing,but he stayed for dinner too.I said i was disappointed he'd cancelled monday with me(his birthday),he said he didn't think it was right coming round,plus he didn't want to celebrate this year.He's still coming round sunday for the cinema,but he just seems uncomfortable around me right now,he obviously had something on his mind too,but didn't say what.<BR>he said he wasn't going out tomorrow,so maybe he's not seeing OW after all,although i know they are in contact by phone every day.<BR>Do I take this as a good sign-he doesn't want to have dinner on his birthday,but still wants to goto the cinema with me ?There is no physical contact apart from a quick kiss hello and good bye,what do you think ?

Dizzy, Sounds to me like your H is very confused and depressed right now. If I were you I wouldn't push it. I would just let things ride for awhile. If he wants to go to a movie thats great but I wouldn't beg for more time with him. Let him see what a independant person you can be. <P>Jill