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<BR>I don't want to ever say the words "My ex-wife...".<P>I don't want my kids to resent me or my W.<P>I don't want to wonder if she's where she said she was going, doing what she said she'd be doing, with who she said she'd be with.<P>I don't want to be lonely.<P>I don't want to be unhappy.<P>I don't want to be sad.<P>I don't want to feel anxious or stressed out.<P>I don't want to be depressed.<P>I don't want to hear or say angry words.<P>I don't want children who wonder if their parents love and care about them.<P>I don't want to do things or go places or have fun alone.<P>I don't want to wonder if she really said what she meant, or if she held back because she thought I couldn't handle the truth.<P>I don't want to be thought of as a worthless man that messed up her life.<P>I don't want to be afraid.<P>I don't want to send this list to her, so I'm putting it here.<P>Slightly Sane<BR>

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SSane-<P>That is the list I would make to my WS. It is how I feel exactly. I look around our home and think this is OUR stuff,OUR home: you can't split it into two piles!

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Can I join in?<P>I don't want to feel this despair, horridness and pain ever again.<P>I don't want to hurt anyone, especially my H.<P>I don't want to be divorced, and live life without my H.<P>I don't want to do what I did before that contributed to our Marriage problems.<P>I don't want to be without a family in my life.<P>I don't want to be this depresssed.<P>I don't want to be treated bad anymore.<P>I don't want to be blamed for everything that's happened anymore.<P>I don't want to hate myself anymore.<P>I don't want to ride this rollercoaster again, twice is quite enough.<P>I don't want to give up on my H.<P>I don't want to be used as a security blanket as opposed to a patner in life for my H.<P>I don't want to miss out on life anymore.<P>I don't want to have people feel sorry for me.<P>I don't want my H to think I hate him for the things he's done.<P>I don't want to wake up crying in the night anymore.<P>I don't want to be calus and hardened because of what I've been thru.<P>I don't want to be resentful or angry anymore.<P>I don't want to move on with my life without finding out what went wrong. <P>I don't want my H to think of me in a bad way.<P>I don't want to feel like I'm an outcast in society because my marriage is riddled with infidelity and promiscuity.<P>I don't want this to be my life.<P>Jo

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Double ditto!!!!!!


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