I was thinking about one of my on-line friends whom I had the privilege of meeting 3 years ago. She died of cancer last October. One thing that she had always wanted to do was go on a Carribean cruise with her H, but he didn't want to go. When they found out that the paralysis in her arm and other symptom meant that her cancer had come back and that it had mastacized (sp?) with no hope of cure, he offered to take her on the cruise. By that time, she had already gotten pretty bad off and was angry that her life was going to be cut so short...she refused, asking him, "What do I look like? $%^&ing Make A Wish?" Anyway, he did love her deeply and regrets that he never took her on the cruise when she was healthy.<P>I've been wondering what my H's answer would be if I asked him, "If I died tomorrow, would you have any regrets?" However, I probably won't ask him, because I'm afraid he'll just give one of his shrugs and no answer or that he'll say, "No." If that happened, I think I'd just call it quits.

Sweetpea,<P>Never ask a quetion that has a good chance of hurting you...<BR>...for your own health!<P> <P>Jim