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Hi I am trying to go head to head with the other man in my wife's life. I am trying to date her and prove that I love her more than any other man can. she says she still loves me but is not attractive to me. Is that normal. I need ideas she is not talking much to me she feels threaten by me. I think one of her needs is conversation but its hard to talk to her when she will not talk back. How do you get someone to fall in love with you again. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I tell her I love her, That she is special the bad thing is I did not do these things before it was too late.She says she is trying to figure out what she wants. She will say she loves me is that a good sign I am at a loss I can not push her I just need to here what she is thinking and she is not talking. Thanks
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Pushing her to talk if she does not want to can backfire. She's probably not ready to talk about anything deep, but may be willing to talk about less important things, so try keeping it light.<P>As for the rest, what did you two do when you were dating? Think back to what you enjoyed together, and see if you can recreate some of that fun and good feelings. Don't puch anything tho.
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Oh, I forgot. You probably cannot win a "head to head" competition right now...an affair is much like an addiction, and it is strong. What you can do is demonstrate that you can be a good spouse, pleasant, fun, able and willing to meet her emotional needs.<P>Have you read Plan A info?<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000176.html" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000176.html</A> <p>[This message has been edited by kam6318 (edited September 09, 2001).]
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