Dear fellow MB'ers, <p>I am so sorry to have to do this, but we have a big temptation in our midsts right now. There is a person posting on this site, on other forums (GQ and EN) who claims to be the OW for to a MM for the past 15 years. She is continuing to break onto our threads and post inflammatory, mean-spirited posts--or she is starting her own threads just goading us on so she can go back to her friends and talk about what prudes and republicans we are here on Marriage Builders.<p>I know you already have enough pain and anguish in your lives, trying to deal with an affair in your marriage--and not this! But, I am respectfully asking that NONE of us respond to her or to her thread. Do not get tangled up in it and do not flame her either. If we ignore her, she will eventually tire of her game, and we will have the dignity of knowing that she was not mistreated here at Marriage Builders.<p>Lisa_OW, if you read this post, know that I will not be responding to you or your posts, even if they are on THIS thread. I do not know who you are or anything about your life, so I am not in a position to judge you. I will leave that up to God. But I do know that this site is about building and improving marriages, not tearing them down. I want to have a happy marriage and be in love with my husband, and I hope that he wants a happy marriage and wants to be in love with me too. If you do NOT want to do this in your life, please don't continue to post here at this site. <p>We have asked you nicely to stop posting here, and now I hope my friends will join me in a united front of ignoring your posts.

Thank you for leaving us alone.<p>
CJ