Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 2
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 2 |
MY WIFE AND I HAD JUST GOTTEN BACK FROM OUR 12TH ANNIVERSARY VACATION WHEN I FOUND OUT SHE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR FOR ABOUT A MONTH WITH ANOTHER MARRIED MAN FROM WORK. WE HAD ALWAYS BEEN VERY HAPPY TOGETHER BUT LATELY I HAD BEEN GOING OUT OF TOWN TO MUCH AND TO LONG FOR WORK AND DIDN'T SEE THE PAIN I WAS CREATING. SHE SAYS IT IS OVER WITH HIM AND WE THINK WE CAN WORK THOUGH THIS BUT HOW CAN I FORGET ABOUT IT WHEN EVER ANNIVERSARY IT WILL COME BACK TO HAUNT ME. I'VE HAD THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE BECOME THE WORSE DAY. CAN ANYONE HELP ME!
THANKS
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 2,616
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 2,616 |
Hi and Welcome
I'm sorry you had to come here. You are among friends.
It will take time to recover. It is good that you think you can work through this.
Let me make sure I understand, the A was for about a month? It was short lived, so I think that is in your favor. The A is over correct? If so, then that is also very good for both of you.
There is a very good book written by Dr. Harley. How to Survive an Affair. I highly recommend it.
Good luck. You will hear from others here also.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2002
Posts: 252
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2002
Posts: 252 |
Welcome to MB. Sorry you have to be here.
I found out about my H's affair 3 days before our anniversary!!! So I am worried that every year I will relive this!!!
I hope your W is doing everything possible to help you deal with this! My H has been great, and even agreed to move (as OW lives 3 miles away!!!)
I wish you both the best of luck!
-mcnyh
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
328
guests, and
77
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,525
Members72,042
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
