My husband has relapsed into marijuana use again. I am so angry, hurt, and confused. I don't know how to act around him. I just found out for sure last night when I asked him due to my noticing the signs over the past few weeks. (Irresponsibility, laziness, sleepiness, speaking to me in a mean tone of voice when he's craving)
We have been seeing a good Christian marriage counselor twice a month and things had been going so well. Now I just want to beat him up. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary Sunday. Now I feel like it was all a lie because he has been hiding this from me. This is his umpteenth relapse since our marriage. When we dated and married he was my pastor's assistant and had been clean for years. I work for the justice department as a counselor trying to help juveniles get off drugs, so his relapses and several arrests are also professionally humiliating to me. How do I react to this? Last night I just went to bed and said nothing.