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My first topic "Four Lovers & A Baby" refers.

I have received a lot of advice from hurt husbands encouraging me to send my WW packing.

We are now both checking the postings (at my suggestion) and feel that some opinions from former WW's, who managed to put things right, might be helpful for us to get to the root cause and avoid any future temptations.

I still feel that maybe my preoccupation with work and subsequent evening tiredness may have driven her to seek friendship and subsequent amusement elsewhere, but as yet she has not told me this ... or for that matter any other explanation.

So your experiences re : why it started, who was to blame, how it finished, how you prevented temptation, did it work out etc., would be helpful.

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You might get a better response on the more active boards. Certainly General Questions is a good place to ask these questions. Since your child may not biologically be yours you might find some good advice in the pregnancy section. There are a few men there in your situation, and there are some women there who have had children from their OM.

I hope this helps you in this very difficult time.

God Bless,

JL


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