D-Day was Feb. 7 this year. He said the meanest things int he world to me. I was the worst/meanest person in the whole world yadda yadda yadda. He didn't take all of his stuff out of the house, but he non the less left.

I really believed for 10 weeks that I caused all the problems in our marraige and had felt totally defeated. When I fainally uncovered the truth he still continued to lie. His exact words have been "That is not the reason I left", "I only kissed her", "It only lasted 2 weeks". Well I read the love letter she wrote him. From the words and the tune on\f the letter, you would have thought they were getting ready to make wedding plans.

We are seeing a new counselor that is so much better than the first, she told him to his face, "If the affair was over you would go home, that is how these things work" Sometimes I have great hope and then the weekends come and we don't hear one word from him and I feel like we are back to square one. I wish I knew what I could do. Do you guys think he spends his weekends with her and that is why we do not hear from him?? During the week he comes over 2 or 3 times and we are going to weekly MC.

I hope I can hold on to get him back. My d is misserable without him.

any advice or words of wisdom would be so appreciated. Sorry if this post does not make sense