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Dear Friends,<P>I agreed w H that we(I)won't fight here anymore. It's both a blessing and a curse, being able to read what each other writes. It's easier to see the negative parts of everything. Even this morning I can see it's still quite a sensitive subject for both of us. Anyway, fights happen in a marriage, especially in ours. I do feel bad if anyone felt like they had to add something that made them feel caught up in the middle, and I appriciate everyone's help here.<P>Khyra
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Khyra -- Consider it mostly a blessing. God, what I wouldn't have given if W could have written to me. She can't talk to me, so I suggested writing on multiple occasions. She has a sheaf of letters I have written her, trying to put my feelings down on paper in a clearer fashion than I can say. She neither talks or writes. I would even appreciate receiving written notes that said things that hurt, because at least I would know what's on her mind.<P>If writing reduces or eliminates the fights, then the writing is definitely a positive no matter how you perceive what you read. It will also eventually lead to the two of you being able to discuss these things without the conflict.<P>Keep it up....<P>--DeWayne--
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