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TMCM, I agree that I burst her bubble, but, I really dont know if by opening this up if I made anything any better.
Seems like it just dumped things alittle further down the road.
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That's very true rookie, you don't know BUT keep in mind that one of the things that makes affairs exciting is the element of secrecy and by exposing her A to the world, you've taken that element of excitement away from her and now her encounters with the OM are going to be forever tainted by the harsh realities that will make them unable to justify their actions not only to themselves but to the rest of the world. You're a bad, bad boy <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Folks, I went away for the weekend to get out of tis mess for awhile and think clearly for a change.
Need to find a good Plan B letter,,, where is one that I can look at.
Is it acceptable to send it to her by e-mail????
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Please, if someone is out there that has sent a plan B letter, respond, I need to know if sending it by e-mail is acceptable
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Well, sent the plan b letter to her at work, she should get it in the morning.
Did find several from another post and based mine from those.
Since I've been home approx. 3 hours ago, I've recieved 3 calls on the house phone and one on my cell, when I see the number from her parents, I havent answered.
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She stopped by to drop the son off this morning for school.
I was in the bathroom shaving and she decided she wanted to talk, I closed the door and turned the radio up, hurt like hell cause I did want to talk to her and see her.
She will not read the letter till she gets to work as I sent it to her e-mail.
We were talking about buying the son a new bike, well guess what she bought yesterday. Wonder, think thre is a little guilt there or just trying to undermine me.
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Rookie,
I hope that the Plan B letter works for you. It sounds like to me you are handling things just fine. It is hard to put her on ignore isn't it?
I did it to my W when she asked me to leave, (at least to the best of my ability) I have not sent a plan B letter yet, so I don't know what you should expect.
Keep posting to let us know how things are going.
I would say the bike was a little of both, guilt and a chance to take a jab at you.
Take care,
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shoot me a e-mail, I'll send you her reply and the letter I sent, TMCM, if your out there please also contact me. I'd like to know what you think of the letter.
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So, not a minute after I made the last post, she calls. I dont answer the phone when I see that it's her number. She tells me that I am not acting civil by having no contact.
That without conversation, reconcilliation is not possible and that if I only have contact with her by e-mail, she will not respond and that our only contact then will be through a attorney.
In her e-mail she made several of the same statements, the only response I sent her was when she inquired if I had plans with our son for the weekend, I simply answered that question with nothing else.
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Rookie,
Interesting... our wives share the same first name, at least in how you call her!
I think the letter you sent her was spot on! You truly made your feelings known. Notice that she did not mention the OM in her response?
If you read real close, she did say that she would only be contacting you regarding your S. Which is exactly what you were going for, but she doesn't even realize it! (FOG?)
I hope that this will produce the desire effect quickly, I wish you the best!
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rOuter, going to keep sending the e-mails to you so you can get a idea what to expect should you go that way.
I havent had her try to contact me this much in months, and it's only the second day.
I know most of her posts are of the negative sense, but it does seem she is a bit shook and she is trying to get a rise out of me. I'm not going to bite.
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