Well, I have searched for similar situations on here and have come up short. Here is what is happening to me. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant. My H had an affair with a coworker starting back the middle of March. I found out middle of May. By then it was the full blown emotional deep attachment of 'love never felt before', 'totally different from anything or anyone he's loved' , 'she is the ONE' all that crap that kills you to hear. It took him 3 weeks and me contacting the OW to get the full history and truth. My H and I have had a rough marriage according to him he was always 'not sure' about me or the long term committment. We have been married 2 years and 2 months. We dated a year and were engaged 9 mos. He tried to cut off all communication with the OW but they work together and they had such sneaky ways of contacting eachother. He couldn't do it. I asked him to make a decision between the baby, our family, me and HER. He moved out 2 days ago. Through this entire painful process I have always told him that I want to stay together, try and build on the great friendship and respect and teamwork we have and give this baby a chance at a typical home. I wanted to put the effort in I knew it would take. Especially from reading this site. The moving the new careers the total fresh start approach. Now here I am, ready to give birth in 30 days and he moved out. Gave up, chose her. What do I do to move on? To get over the pain and resentment. I am afraid it will affect me as a mom. I am also not sure how to handle his involvement in the whole birth and first months of life. I never thought him capable to abandon us like this. I worry that he will end up putting our child through 2 or 3 wives and numerous step children. Not to mention being an emotionally unavailable father. What should I do? Has anyone ever gone through anything like this pregnant?
