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JaydenCrown..Imoved this for you
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http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=34;t=011258

This is a link to your post, I think you'll get more traffic here.

Your spouce is doing all the typical things one does after d day. He is deep in the fog. Don't trust that "we're in love" statement. They all say that and about 6 mo. into recovery they call the OW names and can't believe that they ever were with them. It is a slow process to recovery, but you have started. You know what is going on. Start by taking care of yourself. Do Plan A. It is about doing all you can to make coming home a good experience, so that if you walk away you can do so with your head held high. It is also about self improvement. Keep reading here. Get an attorney to know your rights. Hugs to you...it will get better.
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Thanks for moving this for me NJ! I hadn't even found this board yet....

From what I hear, he's "having the time of his life" and is finally happy. I'm angry at both of them...and a little at myself for not seeing it coming. Anyway...

I'm trying to move out of the town that we all live in. It's too small, and she lives right down the street from me. I have decided that I don't think I'm willing to wait around for his crisis to play out though. I'm working on myself, and pursueing my dreams...while trying to make myself get up in the morning. I'm still willing to try to make our marriage work at this point, but he tells me there is no hope, nothing to save.

What should I do?

Sara

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