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I think you did the right thing by moving out. I also think you need counseling to figure out your role in enabling your husband to treat you and the children in this manner. Without counseling, you may find yourself in a similar or more abusive relationship, if you don't reconcile with this one.
The OW will now be in yout revered position. I don't envy her. Stop acting like you lost something to your children, particularly the son. You don't want him growing up thinking that this is the way he should treat his wife and kids.
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momwrugrats i udderstand what your going thru im on my 2nd marriage ist ended by wife having an affair i was married to her for 1 year my present wife new this i told her it was the only thing i would leave her for but after 21 years and 2 affairs that i know of im still here i dont have any answers of why she says shes trying hard but all i see is her acting like it never happened i get depressed and she cant be there for me we fight and she says crule things i dont know why i stay i guess i was raised and tought love is 50/50 and should last forever i feel the end of my marriage slowly being inevitable lord knows ive tried she says she has but ive caught her in to many lies i havent posted here in a long time i got to a point of getting more depressed when i read the posts antidepressants were useless my belief in love marriage and god faultered i tried to kill myself by pills but thru them up i have dicided shes not worth death im still here but i dont think it will be for long divorce seems inevitable there are so many questions i cant get the answers to im learning to deal with the depression on my own and if my marriage doesnt work than i hope i can find someone that doesnt believe sex is everything its fun but a small part of a marriage good luck to you not all men are mean and horndogs may you to find someone that knows what love is billibob
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billibob I have been wondering so much about you.Please go to my thread and let me know what is going on in your life. Sorry did not mean to thread jack <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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