I found out 3 weeks ago that my husband is having an affair, and that he has no intention of stopping the affair. He moved out 6 days after I found out. I have worked on providing him with all kinds of opportunities for reconcilitation, telling him that I love him, and that I am willing to work to save our marriage. He is not interested and wants to end our marriage as soon as possible. <P>Plan A has been difficult because he will not discuss with me what he feels is wrong with our marriage, or what emotional needs his affair filled that I have not. I have not been content in our marriage either over the last 6 months, but have basically ignored or not known about whatever problems that have occurred over the past 6 months.<P>I am still extremely distraught over the shock, pain and the fast movement of our breakup. I try to talk to him, but I feel like I get no where. Whould I move to Plan B and what should it entail?