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O<p>I wish you the best. I really hope that you can take control of your actions.<p>I don't think it's a good idea for your kids to remain at the church. Go to another church with your H and kids.

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I am not catholic.. but I find it hard to believe a parish would let this continue at all. If you really love your husband and want to stay then you must find a new church and your kids will be better off for it.
I think your husband is right, the only reason to stay there is for yourself to see this man, who frankly should not be a priest. How can he guide the people in his congregation if he is destroying families.
This is a little too wierd for me.
and NC means never seeing this man ever for any reason what so ever as long as you live. pretty self explanitory isnt it? Your post do not show any respect for your husband what so ever.

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olgjmj,<p>I see your post of NC letter ... praise the Lord ... your owe it to everyone, your H , your kids, and everyone that has been invole and try to help you ... but the most important is YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF<p>IMHO, one thing that you should consult w/ your H ... OM is the one should go, let him talk to the bishop again to get OM ship out of state. It is not fair to your kid & you.<p>God Bless you ... I hope you will be as this resillient to let go your A as to work on your H. The road to recovery is hard and full of temptation but with your H's patience and deep love for you and paired w/ your resilliency I beleive that both of you could restore your M and have even a better one.<p>I do beleive that HE has a plan for you ... [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] -RH-

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Im not saying ANYTHING! Im not posting, Im not responding. I can do this, I can do this, I can do this!!!!!! PHEW!!!!!!!

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by clarkie:
<strong>Im not saying ANYTHING! Im not posting, Im not responding. I can do this, I can do this, I can do this!!!!!! PHEW!!!!!!!</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Good for you and good for us ... keep your comment @ tow. You should even delete your post, you are already saying something by posting.

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HALLELUJA!!!! GLORY TO GOD....MB IS KEEPING THE INSANE OLG!<p>COULD YOU TRY AND PAPER TRAIN HER? MAYBE SPAY HER TOO? SHE IS IN HEAT AND SHE JUST CANT QUIT. I'M SURE THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE FOR IT!<p>THANK YOU,
FROM THE GANG AT I.COM

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by I hate Ollg and shannon1:
<strong>HALLELUJA!!!! GLORY TO GOD....MB IS KEEPING THE INSANE OLG!<p>COULD YOU TRY AND PAPER TRAIN HER? MAYBE SPAY HER TOO? SHE IS IN HEAT AND SHE JUST CANT QUIT. I'M SURE THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE FOR IT!<p>THANK YOU,
FROM THE GANG AT I.COM</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Yes, we know OLG is insane ... anyone involve in A is insane. Yes, we know OLG just can quit ... We are not keeping OLG ... OLG chooses post here and we choose to response to her. This is a free forum. However please if you don't have anything to say that will help her ... don't post here. You could go back to I.com and start your own post in there ... I would not throw the first stone or any stone to OLG.

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WELL AS YOU SAID, THIS IS A FREE FORUM. YOUR TELLING ME I CANT POST HERE? WHERE IS THAT WRITTEN? THERE IS NOTHING ANYONE CAN SAY TO HELP THIS CRACKERJACK, SHORT OF TELLING HER JUST TO DO HIM AND GET IT OVER WITH.<p>WHY WOULD YOU SAY ANYONE INVOLVED IN AN *A* IS INSANE? THAT IS JUST HUMAN NATURE. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED DOES NOT GUARANTEE MONOGOMY AND ANYONE THAT THINKS THAT IS PRETTY NARROW MINDED. A MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE DOES NOT MEAN YOU CONTROL AND OWN YOUR SPOUSE. <p>I THINK THAT ANYONE WHO BELIEVES JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED THEY WILL BE SHIELDED FROM AN *A* IS INSANE. NOTHING IS FOR SURE IN THIS WORLD, NO PROMISES, NO GUARANTEES!NOTHING <p>[ May 04, 2002: Message edited by: I hate Ollg and shannon1 ]</p>

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I hate Ollg and shannon1,<p>God bless you [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] , I rather spend my energy to post for OLG. Good night -RH-

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I'M SORRY, DID I HIT A SORE SPOT? DID YOUR H HAVE AN *A*?? DID YOU THINK THAT YOU CONTROLLED AND OWNED HIM?? DID YOU THINK THAT HE WOULD NEVER STEP OUT ON HIS VOWS TO YOU?<p>I THINK I DID HIT A SORE SPOT. I THINK THERE'S A BIT OF DENIAL GOING ON HERE? YOUR ILLUSIONS OF MARRIAGE DIDNT QUITE MEASURE UP?<p>UH HUH, OBVIOUSLY A SORE SPOT. GUESS THATS WHAT THIS BOARD IS FOR RIGHT? BS'S THAT ARE IN DENIAL, CLAIMING TO HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG, WONT ADMIT TO THERE PART OF MAKING THE SPOUSE WANDER? SPOUSE AND OW ARE THE DEMON SPAWN, WHILE POOR BS JUST CANT UNDERSTAND WHAT WENT WRONG?<p>GOSH, I'M REALLY SORRY!

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The newest member on this board, is most definately JUNIOR.<p>She is...*things never change* from glory b. <p>Very, very immature. Unbelievably, so.<p>She hounds O and Shannon.
She definately has her own problems, it's just too bad she wouldn't leave her problems a glory.b

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Patient1,<p>Thanks for the background ... she sounds like my WW. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] -RH-

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[img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p>MB Members,<p>This thread has obviously turned into high drama. If you want to help olgjmj she has another thread with her No Contact letter:<p>Please critique my NC letter <p>I see no purpose to posting on this thread.<p>Magnolia

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For the record the Ihateolgshannon poster is NOT, I repeat, IS NOT TNC at Gloryb....
That poster needs to be deleted.<p>[ May 04, 2002: Message edited by: Dragon Ladie ]</p>

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