I promised, (and posted) that plan B was in effect and that there would be no contact with myself and WS, here it is May and he moved in with OW in November. Now he calls me Tuesday evening being nice and invites me for a drink, I knew I should have said no but I wanted to see why he wanted to see me. We sat and talked for about 3 hrs (not about OW) just updates, kids, movies just chatted. Well.... he chatted me right back to my house into the bed. What a mistake, Wed he was nice we went to lunch but for the last 2 days he has been the Devil. I am now the OW, and got played. Now let me just say that plan B is now in FULL EFFECT. No calls no drinks and no bedrooms. I cant believe I fell for his crap.
I had this idea that he was going to try make a move out of her house but.....
I think he is just being a dog and trying to make sure I am not seeing anyone else, like a animal putting out his scent. The no contact was too much for him it took control and he knew I wasn't going to call him to chat. He got afraid that I may have been seeing someone else and checked out the water, made sure it was still warm.
NEVER AGAIN

No More Drama,<p>What did he do in the past 2 days ? ... You are still married to H you are not OW !!!. You might see the possiblities of back into plan A w/ a vengence !. A is not paradise at all for your H other wise H will not cheated OW !. Could you elaborate more on "the devil" ? .... vent it here !!!.<p>-RH-

Felicity ... are you ok ? ^^^bump^^^^

I am OK, I am alive! wow months have gone by since I have had a chance to come back here. I got focused on my son and his surgery in June, he had open heart surgery to correct his heart defect. H and I were great at hospital, spent lots of time together and of course spent several nights together, but after my son came home same as always, no contact, rude as ever. Evil, I tell my self that I have come to terms with the fact that it is over and he isn't coming back but I miss him. Last time I saw him he was at Arby's with ow and his oldest son from first marriage, I was on my lunch break from work. Haven't seen him since and we don't speak like we used to. He hates me now. I will not allow my boys to go over to ow house, his new house, to stay every other week. My Baby came home with a large scab on his leg and my 4yr old explained that it got there because ows daughter opened the car door and the baby fell out of his car seat. H says I am doing it to hurt him but I don't think my 4yr old son is old enough to live in 2 houses and not be hurt by it. The transition every week was so hard on him and me, and the baby needs consistent care due to his heart and ow is not the one to provide it judging by car seat incident. And how could anyone expect me to let my children be subjected to their fathers plaything. H wont agree on visitation, he wants shared custody I say he can have the boys every other weekend and holidays that we agree on. He hates me for it. He has been having his cake and eating it all this time. He suffered no consequences for his actions instead I have been continiously hurt and abused.
Anyway based on how the past 2 months have gone I think He doesn't want me anymore so here 9months after D-day I am giving up. It burns but how long should I sit here waiting? Tomorrow was not promised to me or anyone else, I have to live my life now without him.