Hello, TBO and Redhat,
It's nice to know I'm worried about ~ that means a lot.
That's too bad about OW's H, but I did take down your email addy and will send you some mail.
My WH has started counseling and although I didn't go in for his 1st session, he sounded very positive and it appears this counselor is active in the sessions. I feel good that we found him.
My H is starting to be honest with me about things. I realized I LB and can't forgive since I don't know what I'm forgiving him for. I just can't say I forgive as a blanket statement so I just can't let him live it down or forget he's hurt our marriage. I asked about a woman he met on the net over a year ago and I know they don't talk but she seemed so attached to him so I asked why and he confessed they had phone sex once or twice. Ouch! I'm not sure how to handle that or what to think of it.
He has another woman now who he emails with and talks to on the phone from work. I know it started around the time I asked him to move out so I'm not sure I have a right to contact her. Part of me thinks he has a secret email addy since he gave me his work email password. I'm quite sure he hasn't told her we are working on recovery and he's put his ring back on.
I was embarrassed since I've been here on MB for about 3 years and I'm still in the same rut. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
I hope to "see" you soon!
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