Well, <BR>Yesterday after I posted my W called and broke down and told me alot of disturbing things. She is still at her mother's. She said she isn't going back to OM because he kicked her out. Well she told me he was having her sell drugs and he even gave her an STD....She has become depresed and doesn't know what to do. I saw my councellor after that and he said exactly what I have heard before that my main concern should be the kids. I wish i could help her , but he said I can't if she doesn't want me to. even after all this I feel I love her . I am so angry and hurt. This guy really has her brain washed from what she told me he sounds like he does this type of things to women all the time...My W had never been out in the real world before and i tried so much to keeep her from experiencing that. Now she is a big mess and I can't do much to help her. I don't know if I can be with her, because I am afraid she will just come back becas eshe doesn't want to be at home with Mother. The worst thing she was already talking about going out to club .. I don't get it I guess i shouldn't try to figure her out just be there for my kids...SOme one please advice...

I don't know enough about the history of your wife and the drug issues. I know you don't want to enable, but you have an opportunity here as well. <P>Maybe someone else has advise. I just can lend support, and tell you I know what you feel like. It feels really frustrating, doesn't it.<P>

Very much so I can't think