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FULL PLAN A and some of plan B I NEED SUPPORT!!!
#465668 04/28/03 12:07 AM
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Just to let you know...

After 2 months of hell I'm going to plan A. ALL about myself. And I'm trying to get away from H (plan B also)... u see? I don't see that spark in his eyes anymore and frankly I'm that hurt and tired of asking for it that I think is time for this.

I do not care if I'm with him anymore or not... Now this is about me...

Need lots of support on this...

Thanks
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by matilde:
<strong>I do not care if I'm with him anymore or not... Now this is about me...</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You either in plan A or plan B ... nothing in between otherwise you achive nothing. I don't know about your plan A and I am a bit pressed on time, just found a part time job <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> , to look for your posts. Could you reiterate on your 2 months of plan A ?. Actually with this attitude, it is easier to do plan A.

-rh-
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I was one month plan A and achieving results with H. After dday.
Then I went backwards and since I got no support from him in my "down mood", I'm resuming my plan A but I don't want to talk or see H anymore. At least by now (that is why plan B).
Re: FULL PLAN A and some of plan B I NEED SUPPORT!!!
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If you don't have contact with WH, how does he know that about your plan A ?. Plan B called for plan B letter then NC and refuse to fillin any ENs. Plan A called for no LB, fillin ENs as much as you can and working on to show WH your changes. You are sending a wrong signal on what you are doing now. IMVHO. You could take a break ... like a retreat. Go for one week vacation w/o your WH and your kids. If you bring your kids along you should have someone look after them. Go to far away relative or family. Then you came back fresh and ready to go the distance of plan A.

-rh-

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Re: FULL PLAN A and some of plan B I NEED SUPPORT!!!
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Hello redhat

I know what is plan A but I think we both need some rest of each other. H asked for this sepparation and by me still looking for him wouldn't work.

I did try to be better in a short vacation we got and still no magic so I'm out of ideas in that matter.

Btw I got no kids, I'll keep u posted.
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matilde,

What are you waiting for ? ... go and check cruise to Mexico and ask your WH if he want to go .. if he doesn't ... hit that click button and go by yourself.

-rh-

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