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my marriage is doomed
#467332 08/05/03 02:17 PM
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My husband and I have had a rough three years, immigration issues, separated for eight months and reconnecting. After three years I suspected he was cheating on me. I heard him on the phone having a conversation with another woman and I completely lost it emotionally. I left that night and headed out of town, sought comfort and found one of his friends, we went out and I cried on his shoulder all night, after getting really drunk I ended up "sleeping with the friend". I didn't go home until the next day and when I did I initially told my husband I slept with a stranger but then felt compelled to tell him the truth. He wanted to work it out and claims to have forgiven me. I feel like such a tramp, for three years I was a faithful wife even through the separation. I don't know if we can keep it together. Any advice...
Re: my marriage is doomed
#467333 08/05/03 02:43 PM
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gaily,

Welcome to MB. Please follow the general welcome page and its links to learn more about MB.

IT IS NOT ABOUT THE MISTAKE IT IS ABOUT WHAT R U GOING TO DO ABOUT IT.

I would suggest you to cut off all the contact with OM. Get you & your H conseling with MB conselor or cerri or any conselor that endorse MB.

I would suggest you to tell your H about this. The OM is the wall between you & H and you have a chance to tear it down before too late. You should write a NC letter for OM and ask your H to give it to him.

Find 4 rules of recovery ... ENs, LB, Quality time & Radical Honesty ... you could survive this A ... many did.

Invite your H to post and ask question here

-rh-

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