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I am confused about Plan B. It says no contact - what about if you have children? Do you keep spouse from seeing them?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TL:
<strong>I am confused about Plan B. It says no contact - what about if you have children? Do you keep spouse from seeing them?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">NC is between BS and WS. You should encourage your children to see WS, it your kid's parent.
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I thought so - but that makes plan B very difficult. My daughter is only 4 months old. I do not see how we could not have any contact. Any suggestions?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TL:
<strong>I thought so - but that makes plan B very difficult. My daughter is only 4 months old. I do not see how we could not have any contact. Any suggestions?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Do you have any family member to do the exchange ? ... if D goes to child care, you could drop them and he could picks it up there and vice versa.
I read you posts on the other board. NC is not plan B. There is no plan B without plan A ... I suggest you to read plan A again ...
Is A out in the open ? I suggest you call very close families and freinds and let his A out in the open.
Hnag in there ... -rh-
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