Hi thank you for your reply about my fiance. You said that I was asking the wrong question of whether I should expose the A to help end it.

The real question is Should I marry him. Before I cheated on him and I was very unkind about it. SHortly after this I was pregnant with our son. I didn't become any nicer then. I was more than a B#$%^# on wheels and he was there for me. He went over and above to try to change my attitude toward him but I just could not bend at the time.

It took me some time and I got my head on straight. Almost a year and a half. DUring this time the OW came on the scene. Well he never said a harsh word to me and though I knew it hurt him he stayed around and tried to reason with me.

Only thing is I haven't been as quiet as he was. I've done a lot of LB toward him. Now I feel we are in the exact opposite seat as were a year and a half ago. We had a calm talk about it today and he told me he loves me a lot but that he wants to makes sure we are together for the right reasons. I do too. But a lot has taken place between us. Do you have any input?

*******Hi please do not respond to this topic so that it can push down fruther on the topic page. Because I've been jumping all over the place tryng to reply to different people I am hogging the site and I apologize************