I am about to mail this PBL. Is this okay to send?

Rhonda, you are my wife and I love you. As I told you, the path you have chosen is hurting me far too much. In order to raise our children in the way God would have them to be raised I must remove myself from this situation until you decided that you want to include yourself in this family. Until you decide to severe all communications with Randy and end the affair, until you decide you want to be a full time mother and work on this marriage, please do not contact me.

I will continue to work on myself so that if and when you do come back I will be the husband you can feel comfortable coming back to. I will continue to do all that I have done for the children in your absence.

You have a husband who loves you, children who need you, and a God who has given His life to save you. We will be waiting for your return.
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Hi Solon,
I don't know all the details tht should be included in a Plan B letter. However there is a link below provided by TOOMUCHCOFFEEMAN form 'Survivng an Affair'. Wishing you and WS the best. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Plan B letter:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=025614;p=1#000006

WHen I say wishing you and WS the best. I mean I hope that WS will turn around. Sorry if that seemed inappropiate.

Things that need to be in a PBL

• I love you.
• I married you for life. I want to stay married to you
• I am willing to do what it takes to be the spouse you've always wanted and to address the things I did wrong in the marriage.
•The affair/neglect/abuse is so painful for me that it will destroy the love I have for you. In order to protect those feelings I must end all contact with you.
• As soon as the affair/neglect/abuse is over I would love to talk with you about our future.
• Until that time please respect my wish for no contact whatsoever
• In an emergency you can reach me through______.(mediator)
• Arrangements for seeing children and handling finances are_____.

The parts I have put in bold are things that seem to be missing from your letter....but what you have so far is super. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

<small>[ December 13, 2003, 04:21 PM: Message edited by: star*fish ]</small>

Thanks Starfish. I've got it and I will add it.