We talked again last night and he said that after our conv. last night he was thinking if the visit goes well he will move out in July after he gets his settlement from a car accident.

He even suggested I find a counselor for us to talk to when he comes so we can start working on rebuilding. We discussed my trust issues which got very hairy and he talked about how he was scared that I will withdrawl emotionally from him again. He said he is done with the childish relationships and lying because it has done more damage then if he would of told the truth.

When he was talking I was thinking now where have I heard this before??? Like having an awful flashback. I am so confused about everything all over again. I should be happy he wants to try to work things out but after moving forward this far I am scared to death to open up totally again.

I think I need to try to save up money to talk to a marriage counselor.

Well, I would not put too much hope in his words. When he comes, just try to have some fun together and avoid relationship talk.

Then when you see some action, you can consider some counseling, and rebuilding the marriage.

My WH has always talked a good story, but never has followed through with anything.