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#49902 01/10/00 11:38 AM
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Well today is my 25th birthday.....It is by far the worst birthday of my life.....<P>Husband did not buy me a christmas gift or a birthday gift.....he said he had no money....but he did take ow to sea world???<P>Oh well I really didn't expect anything....it is just really hard because I love him so much and will do ANYTHING to get my family back.........I wish it would be over....<P>Amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <BR>thevancefamily@hotmail.com<P><BR>

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Amanda, I am so sorry my B-Day(july 19) was six days (july 13) after H told me he didnt love me any more, what a gift. he didnt even get me the normal card from the kids.but he did buy me a christmas gift so little baby steps are slow but they are comming, I would do any thing to take my 27th B day away but I cant so I am making great plans for my 28th with H. just keep thinking next year you will be together. <BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P>LMS20ish@cs.com<P>

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY ;-)<P>All my best wishes to you and your family, and hope for your H to realize what he stands to lose. Best hopes for the future.<BR>

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Avance<P>First off HAPPY BIRTHDAY! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Don't let your H's ignoring of your Bday bother you too much. I know it hurts but isn't necesarily an indication of things to come.<P>My H not only did not acknowledge my Bday this year in Oct ( my 49th mind you), he spent my Bday weekend in Fla. with the OW! He finally confessed this to me before Xmas. Boy did it hurt to hear. However, he told me this because he wanted me to know when they were there it further proved to him he did not want to spend the rest of his life with her. So every cloud can have a silver linning. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Keep making plans for your 26th. Just think what an awesome Bday it will be with an entire year of planning! And don't give up hope!<P>God Speed<BR>FC<P>

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Happy Birthday! Treat yourself! Call some friends, go to lunch, buy youself something you have always wanted! Try to make the best of your day. I hope it gets better for you...

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thanks for all the well wishes....<P>i would love to plan for next year but I already know that he will not be here(work this time......) who know maybe he will get a transfer or something...<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <BR>thevancefamily@hotmail.com<P><BR>

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Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear.Avance Happy birthday to YOu, and many more!<P>Today is mine too, and I have a friend taking me to dinner. Not the same as If H was, but, I know I have people that still Love me even if H, is more concerned with himself right now than me. Oh Well, today I'm glad to be here and alive. Maybe next year will be the BEST, I hope and pray!<BR>Enjoy yourself, You DESERVE it for all you're going thru.<BR>

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tyra....Happy birthday to you to...<P>A phone call would be nice at this point....he called last night but did not ask to talk to me....it was very hard but i am trying to be strong for our kids...<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <BR>thevancefamily@hotmail.com<P><BR>

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Happy Birthday Amanda,<P> Sorry I didn't reply sooner, I just got online. Had a busy day at work. Sorry to hear your day is not going that well. Hey, forget about what he didn't do and celebrate. At least your car insurance goes down! (Ha!, just a little joke to cheer you up) Anyways stay strong. Your doing great!<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>

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Happy Birthday, Amanda.<P>Sorry he was a jerk, but we all love you.<P>Lori

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMANDA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR>Wow, 25?!?!?!?! <BR>Sending lots of hugs, cl

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thanks for all the well wishes...<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <BR>thevancefamily@hotmail.com<P><BR>


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