K,<BR>Thanks for all your insights and inspiration. You helped me back this summer when I was going thru the worst of it. I appreciated your viewpoints and I gained strength from your words of wisdom. I will miss those words, I am still lurking around and reading. Again, for us betrayed males, you have been the shining example of what do and what success stories can be like.

K,<P>You can't retire yet. Facing Choices is back. .<P>JL

K: I've enjoyed having you here to talk to and bounce ideas off of. I hope things continue to improve for you and W. And dude, I ESPECIALLY hope that lose that award I gave you over a year ago! <P>Take care, K!

K--<P>I feel like I'm losing a friend . <P>Gosh, when I started here, I was so lost and confused ... had no idea what was up and what was down. Somehow, you weaved through all my crap and figured it out. <P>You challenged me, you took my statements and dared me with them and as much as they made me angry upon first read, they ALWAYS made me think and think and think (see, thinking's not such a bad thing ). And your words and advice very quickly pulled me into another direction. Thank you.<P>Although I hate to see you go, I'm happy to have had the opportunity to *know* you, and to reap your wisdom.<P>I wish you all the happiness in the world and closure on some of *those* intimate issues <P>Two more things: Pikachu rules (Pika Pika), and so will the Bills next year <P>Take great care of yourself and your lovely family. Your wife must be someone pretty special to have such a special husband! <P><P>------------------<BR>Take good care, Francis<P>

Come on guys....Is no one going to beg K to stay but me???<P>K, <P><B>PLEASE...</B> (in my sweetest voice ) don't leave us. You offer to much wisdom and support. Can we offer to pay you a little to stay? <P>We will miss you....Don't Go!!! (trying hard not to be controlling)

Hi K,<P>Been travelling this week so got here late. Most of it has been said but I did want to post to you.<P>You've brought some goodness to this world. You've helped many people with your wisdom, patience, and caring. We've learned alot from you and with you.<P>It's been an honor to know you. And I hope you come back and visit. <P>Wishing you as much goodness and joy as you can possibly experience. Best,<P>DMac

<B>Susan,</B><P>I'd beg with you, but can't do that when someone says they need more time for their family!<P><B>K,</B><P>One more thing...I know you are lurking!!! No one can quit this board cold turkey!!<P>ARE YOU STEVE?????????<P>Desiree <P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

K,<P> I've changed my tune...I'm with Francis...PLEASE don't go!! You have been the calm voice of reason here...I know I'm pleading and begging but I'm good at it! Anyway, at least check in now and then and update...same goes for Chris and well, everyone else....LU

Dear K - - <BR>I know it's been a while since I've written but I have visited this site from time to time. Actually, my computer "crashed" and I lost both yours and "J's" e-mail addresses.<P>I will echo all the above responses and say that you have been a God-send and well respected by many here.<P>I have kept you and "J" in my thoughts and prayers. Please let her know that I am here as a friend any time she needs an ear. Even if it's just about our little guys growing up. Like Noah, our son (now 2) is the light of my H's life too. And like "J" must feel about you, I am so grateful to God for such a wonderful husband and father!<P>So many changes here, but as for my own situation, things have finally been resolved in "all ways" and we are much happier for it. <P>You will be missed by all. On a side note: Have you thought about a career change? Perhaps as a therapist?? <P>Take Care and God Bless,<BR>"C"

K,<P>I thank God for your presence at MB in the 1 1/2 month that I've been here- time really flies & it's not only in good times.<P>Take care of you & God bless you.<P>Alex<P>------------------<BR>Live and learn<BR>

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K is not reading (if he is taking a break, as well he deserves one!) but I think that a hiatus is good. Gives one time to refocus and tend to other stuff, maybe more important matters? <P>Much good luck wished upon you and your wife . You've taken time with so many here to help and you deserve to reap the rewards in your own marriage from what you've given so many here.<P>Connor<BR>